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The skill is a key or life skill.

Turn taking 2

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Marble run game

Marble run game;

Waiting cards.

  1. Set up the track and pass the marbles round the children.
  2. When everyone has had one go say 'Who's turn next?' You want the children to name the next child in the circle and to pass the marbles with as little prompting as possible.
  3. Some children may need handover hand modelling to pass the marbles.
  4. The target child may need to hold a waiting card to support waiting for their turn.

Keep this activity for the end of a small group work session.

Keep the activity short and snappy so that the children keep motivated.

Choose really interesting toys for this activity that the children don't have general access to.

Songs

Box of song cards with a name/picture for each song that could be chosen.

  1. Give the song card box to one child.
  2. They choose a song;
  3. All sing a short bit of the song.
  4. Encourage them to offer the box to the next child to choose a song.

Keep the song short - only sing a bit of it to avoid the children having to wait to long between choosing a song.

A bag with a selection of appealing toys inside
Stickers

Variety of stickers - for example of cartoon characters, cars, animals etc.

You could do this activity as an activity to end a group session.

Some children may find it difficult to peel off a sticker - give them minimum help to do it themselves, for example peeling up a small corner of a sticker.

Bubbles

Pot of bubbles liquid.

Depending on the children, it may be easier (and less messy!) to pass the bubble wand (stick) around and for you to keep hold of the bubbles container - on their turn they dip the wand into the bubbles to blow.

Musical instruments

One drum or other instrument. Or, on drum or other instrument for each child.

Any other high interest activity game that can be used in a small group

Game

Waiting cards

respond appropriately with no to short phrases

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Items from a bag 1

Bag

Set of objects which the child understands the names of

1. Take the objects out of the bag one at a time, for each item say to the child "It's a [name of object]" for example "It's an apple". Look to the child for confirmation that it's an apple (as if you are not quite sure). Then, with certainty, say "Yes, it's an apple";

2. After a few items, start to get the occasional item wrong (use exactly the same not-quite-sure facial expression you used before). E.g. "It's a pencil" (but it's a toy car). Can the child tell you that it isn't? If not, have a look at the item again and pretend to suddenly realise you were wrong, say "(oh) No, it's not a pencil. It's a car.

3. Repeat.

This activity requires a bit of play acting to work well.

Over time you may be able to name/incorrectly name items more quickly, and be more positive about being right every time (even though you are not).

Jemima and Polly

Two toy animals or dolls (each with a name)

(Optional) things that the dolls can use, e.g. tea set

Able to play cooperatively

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Marble run game

Marble run

Waiting cards (as required)

1. Set up the track and pass the marbles round the children. When everyone has had one go say 'Who's turn next?' You want the children to name the next child in the circle and to pass the marbles with as little prompting as possible. Some children may need handover hand modelling to pass the marbles.

2. The target child may need to hold a waiting card to support waiting for their turn.

Keep this activity for the end of a small group work session.

Keep the activity short and snappy so that the children keep motivated.

Choose really interesting toys for this activity that the children don't have general access to.

Any other high interest activity game that can be used in a small group
Toys from a bag

A bag with a selection of appealing toys inside.

Take turns in activities with an adult eg on computer

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Taking turns on the computer

Computer

2 chairs

simple computer programme e.g. a painting programme

Set up the computer with your chosen programme

Sit next to the child

Show the child how to take turns by:

Saying 'My turn' ........'Your turn' etc Support this by using gesture/points

Depending on the level of difficulties the child is having, you may also need to do the following:

Use a visual timetable with your name in a (drawn) box and then the child's name in a box, then your name in a box and so on i.e. make a list of the turns with names written in boxes

For example:

As you take a turn, cross off one of the boxes with your name in it

As the child takes a turn help him/her to cross off one of his/her names in a box.

It is important to take a turn even if the child finds sharing very difficult.

Start by taking a very short turn for yourself and letting the child have a longer turn. As the child begins to understand that his/her turn will come around again you can lengthen the time of your turns.

You can use similar strategies for taking turns in other activities.

Taking turns with a computer game.

Computer game and two chairs

Egg timer

Share something with another child

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Choose and give

A variety of stickers or a variety of small pieces of fruit

Explain that each child will choose a sticker/piece of fruit to give to another person in the group.

Give each child an opportunity to do this

Emphasise the importance of giving something the other person would like

Initiate an interaction with a peer

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Can I play

Playground

1 or 2 other children

1. When your child comes to you, talk about what the other children in the playground are doing.

2. Ask your child what looks 'fun'.

3. When your child decides say to them "Let's go and join them".

4. Take your child over and encourage them to join in with your support.

5. Next time, repeat steps 1 to 4 but after you've encouraged them to join in, stand back and let them play independently.

6. Next time, repeat steps 1 and 2 and then say "Let's go and ask to join in."

7. Take the child over and encourage them to say "Can I play" and then let them play independently.

8. Next time, repeat 1-2 and then say "you go and ask 'can I play'. I'll watch from here".

The aim of this activity is to encourage your child to start initiating interactions with a peer at play time, rather than talking only to adults.

It may take your child longer to feel confident to play without your presence. Take it slowly so that your child knows you are there to support them if needed but also enable them to become more independent.

If at steps 7 and 8 your child is extremely reluctant to ask, you can break it down and get them to copy the question word for word e.g. "Child's name, say 'Can......I......play....' ".

Going on an errand together

Another child

An easy errand

Make the errands simple, which require just giving an object or a letter to another adult who is aware the child is coming.

Praise the child for asking the other child.

Give praise to both children for completing the task well.

Encourage your child to ask different children.

able to join in action songs with a group of children

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Old MacDonald

Pictures of animals

A good singing voice!!

Children sit in a circle and start to sing. After, "and on that farm he had a......" a child is chosen to choose a picture and sign the animal.

Group continues to sing.

Next verse a different child chooses an animal

Always encourage the child to sign the animal name alongside the other children.

Ask the child "What's that?" when they choose the animal picture so the child is given an opportunity to spontaneously sign the animal.

Wheels on the bus

Card with prompts for actions (optional)

Child can point to the card or do an action to indicate which verse to sing next.

Give choices, "Shall we sing wipers or wheels next?" etc.

If you're happy and you know it

Card with prompts for actions: clap/stamp etc. (optional)

Child can point to the card or do an action to indicate which verse to sing next.

Give choices, "Shall we clap or stamp next?" etc.

give compliments

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Brainstorm

Ask the children "what is a compliment? What should you do if someone gives you a compliment?"

You could also talk about "what is criticism?" and "is criticism always bad?"

Act it out

'Teen-age' rag dolls

The children could act out giving and receiving criticism.

Give a compliment

Cards with names of everyone in the group (including adults)

Take out the name of the person you're offering the cards to, so they can't choose themself.

Compliments Chart

Giving and receiving compliments as part of a language group. This is a good way to boost children's self esteem.

Materials:

Compliment prompt cards, with or without visual support, as appropriate.

Compliments chart, with each child's name on the left side, with a space on the right side for the chosen compliment to be stuck.

For example:


Blu-tac to stick the compliment cards on to the chart, and the chart on to the wall.

You will need to explain what a compliment is - a positive comment about another person that makes them feel good. It needs to be genuine!

You can keep a note of the compliments each child is given over all the sessions of the group. They can get a certificate / note at the end with all their compliments on for them to keep.

You can use this with younger children if you help them to think about what a compliment is. If they find it difficult you can make it easier by asking them to 'say something nice' to the person next to them.

Compliments web

Ball of string

Compliments prompt cards if appropriate.

You will need to explain what a compliment is - a positive comment about another person that makes them feel good. It needs to be genuine!

You can use this with younger children if you help them to think about what a compliment is. If they find it difficult you can make it easier by asking them to 'say something nice' to the person next to them.

Appropriate touch and proximity

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Proximity game

Have the children stand facing each other in pairs. Tell them to walk forward until they feel they're the right distance away. Discuss how close you can be to others.

Don't let it turn into a boisterous ' bumping into each other game'

Brainstorm

Photos of familiar people e.g. adults leading the group, class teacher/s, head teacher, all children in the group, other children from the children's class/es, etc.

photos of unfamiliar people e.g. child, baby, man, woman, police officer, shopkeeper/ market stall holder, bus driver, person at ticket booth at station etc. - from Flash-pro or internet image search

Colouring activity

Outline drawing of the body e.g. from "pictures, please" or "language steps" for each child

red and green pens/pencils

It's ok if children colour different areas, as they may feel differently about being touched e.g. most girls will say they don't want to be touched on their chests, but boys may say it's ok

Adjust language in different social contexts

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
What you would say

Photos of familiar people e.g. adults leading the group, class teacher/s, head teacher, all children in the group, other children from the children's class/es, etc.

Photos of unfamiliar people e.g. police officer, shopkeeper/ market stall holder, bus driver, person at ticket booth at station etc. - from Flash-pro or internet image search.

Comment suggestion cards: comment cards can say things like:

Hello

Hi, mate

How old are you?

What's your name?

How are you?

What do you want?

Please can you be quiet

Shut up

Get out of the way!

Get lost!

Can you help me, please?

Good morning

Excuse me

Oi, you!

Are you a boy or a girl?

Alright?

1. Put the photos where the children can see them and check they can identify who every one is.

2. Have a child pick a comment card and decide which people they could say it to and which people they couldn't

3. children can suggest other comments

Respond to contradictory emotional messages

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
How do I really feel?

Photo emotions cards (e.g. LDA, Colorcards or from Flash-Pro) showing photos of Happy, Sad and Angry faces

1. Show the child the pictures and ask them to identify the emotion shown.

2. Help the child to think of alternative names for each emotion (e.g. angry = cross, annoyed, vexed, mad, cheesed off, in a bad temper etc. ...).

3. Put the pictures where the child can see them.

4. Say a sentence in a tone of voice that contradicts the message, e.g. "I'm fine, nothing's wrong with me" in a sad voice.

5. Ask the child to point to the right picture (or say its name) for the emotion you portray

6. Ask the child: "how did I say I was feeling?" and "How did I really feel?"

Try to keep the activity fun by moving on quickly.

Be prepared to discuss how the child is feeling if they want to.

As an alternative to pointing, put the pictures in different locations in the room and ask the child to stand by the picture they select for the emotion you show.

Judge if behaviour is being a good friend

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Puppet role-play
  • Figures - finger puppets, figures cut from magazines, Playmobil (miniature world) figures etc.
  • Some short story scripts.
  1. Explain to the child that you are going to practise deciding if people are being good friends or not.
  2. Explain that they need to watch / help to act out the story and then you will talk about it.
  3. Act out one of the story scripts together.
  4. Have the child say if the characters (or one specific character) are being good friends or not, and why.
  5. Ask them what the characters could do differently.

This is a good activity for group work.

You could give the figures to the child / children, and let them generate their own story. Stop the action when a key behaviour occurs and discuss if it was being a good friend and why.

Drama
  • Puppets (optional)
  • Story scripts or requirements for what the story should be about.
Friendship Diary
  • A small notebook.
  • A poster on 'how to be a good friend' - optional.
  • Pen.
  • Rewards - e.g. stickers or certificate.

If you have not already done this, you may want to brainstorm what sort of things a good friend will do. Make a poster that you can refer to for ideas.

Talking about what sort of things a good friend would not do will provide a contrast - you may want to make two posters.

This activity could also be carried out by playground supervisors, at the start and end of playtime.

You could write their 'friendship mission' down on a card or post-it note to remind the child throughout the day.

Friendship Awards
  • Small motivating stickers.

This works best in less structured sessions, e.g. in the playground.

make predictions about what people would say

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
What are they saying?

Pictures of people talking to each other, for example:

Picture books (you may need to cover any writing on the page if this distracts the child);

Commercially produced pictures (e.g. LDA - Emotions cards, "Passages a decouvrir", etc);

Photos (e.g. family snaps, or photos you have specially prepared);

Pictures from comics and magazines;

Drawings you have done.

Pieces of paper cut into the shape of a speech bubble (you can buy speech bubble-shaped post-its from stationers such as Ryman or on-line)

Blu-tac (optional)

1. Show the child the picture you have selected;

2. Encourage them to have a good look at the picture;

3. Encourage them to talk about what is happening in the picture;

4. Encourage them to think about what the people in the pictures might be saying;

5. Stick a speech bubble on the picture so that it is coming out of each person's mouth;

6. Ask what each person is saying;

7. Write this down in the speech bubble (or let the child write it themself).

If the child finds it hard to work out what the person could be saying, encourage them to imagine themselves in the situation and ask what they would say.

Use the auxiliary verb is

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
Describe the picture

Selection of pictures of people carrying out different actions.

Cue card with the word "is" written on it.

Pen and paper (optional)

1. Explain that you are going to practice sentences remembering to use all the little words;

2. Explain that one of the words that the child needs to remember is the word "is";

3. Show the child the cue card and explain that it says "is";

4. Show the child one of the pictures and give a simple description e.g. "the boy is running";

5. Show the child another picture and encourage them to describe it;

6. Use the cue card to prompt them if they forget to use the word "is";

7. You could write the child's descriptions down, and use this to reflect back whether they had remembered the word "is".

Photos are usually easier for children to interpret.

In natural speech, the "is" in these sentences often shortens to a "s" or "z" sound, for example "the cat is playing" becomes "the cat's playing", and "the kettle is boiling" becomes "the kettle's boiling". Either the full form or the shortened form is acceptable for this activity.

Make a book

Small notebook or exercise book, or a book you have made

Pens, pencils etc.

"is" cue card as previous activity

Use prepositions in short sentences

Activity/strategy name and materials required How to do the activity Key principles for doing the activity and comments
In

Pictures of a fridge, washing machine, cupboard, suitcase

Pictures of food, clothes.

Take it in turns to instruct each other to put e.g. 'socks in the washing machine', 'put the pasta in the cupboard'

When the children are confident with this, move on to use two prepositions, e.g. 'in' and 'on'.

On

A clothesline - either a picture or a real line and pegs

Pictures of clothes

A TV guide

Outline of a pizza base

Pictures of pizza toppings. Or - draw a base and draw the toppings onto it.

1. Take it in turns to instruct each other to put clothes on the line, e.g. 'Put the jumper on the clothesline.'

2. Go through the TV guide and find favourite shows. Say what you are watching on TV'. e.g. 'I'm watching cartoons on TV

3. Put toppings on the pizza base e.g. 'I'm putting chicken on my pizza'.

When the children are confident with this, move on to use two prepositions, e.g. 'in' and 'on'.

To

Action pictures

Place pictures

When the children are confident with this, move on to use two prepositions, e.g. 'in' and 'to'.

Under

Pictures of furniture and objects

You can use real objects for this.

When the children are confident with this, move on to use two prepositions, e.g. 'on' and 'under'.

Behind, Next To, In Front

Pictures of people

Outline of a bus / train / classroom

Pictures of different vehicles

All Together

An interesting object to use as 'treasure'

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